Pole Position

Instructors Libbie Duskin (right), Shannon Galimba (left) and others practice single leg hangs on the pole.

Seven would-be pole dancers stand in the dark on an autumn night in Seaside awaiting a 7:15pm class. “Hi my babies!” yells Beth Kumar, our teacher for the night, as she runs up to the studio door to unlock it. Inside Ms. Tryss – the name of the studio where the class is held – black poles run floor to ceiling, with enough space between them for turns and twirls. An enormous mirror is mounted on the back wall, and an array of sparkling, sequined high heels are displayed on the shelf above the front desk.

Opened in 2010, this is the Peninsula’s only pole dancing studio. Owner Megan Kamp decided to turn her passion into a business after the single pole in her garage became too limited for her growing number of students. Originally on Lighthouse Avenue in Monterey, where it doubled as a lingerie boutique, Kamp moved Ms. Tryss to Broadway Avenue in 2012 where it’s been used solely as a pole dancing studio.

When our night class begins, the beginners – which include me – stand out. We embody nervous energy, not quite sure of what to do with the pole.

We start with basic stretches, sit-ups, and push-ups, some of which incorporate the pole for balance. Soon we begin working on turns around the poles. From her spot at her pole in the front center of the space, she instructs us on how to execute a spinning turn.

I feel like I’m the Earth rotating around the sun – only more awkwardly, because I have to coordinate my feet and the way I grip the pole at the same time. But Kumar takes a peek at each of us and offers simple pointers – which help a lot, as this skill is complicated enough it takes most of us quite a few tries to get the hang of. When the class finally begins to master the turns – after being shocked how hard it is, I’m surprised at how accomplished I feel at getting it – Kumar challenges us to do inversions.

Inversions mean our bodies will hang upside down on the pole, by our legs. The first step is to stand in front of the pole with our backs against it and wrap our right leg around it for stabilization. Next we must grab the pole and use arm and shoulder strength to try and lift our feet off the ground. Think of it like a pull-up but more acrobatic. I try numerous times, failing to get my feet very far off the floor. I end up leaning against the pole, panting.

After a few minutes of trial and error, Kumar yells, “There you go baby!” It wasn’t me she was cheering, nor any of the other women, but instead the one man who showed up. “Guys generally excel in the inversion part of the class due to their upper body strength,” Kumar says. My feelings of failure are relieved. If he can figure it out – and Kumar can make it look easy without having to be rippling with muscle – there’s hope.

Most of us excelled in dressing pole dancing-appropriate – which it turns out is athletic attire like spandex and sports bras. When I asked Kamp before coming to the class what she recommends for classroom attire, she mentioned that for safety reasons, it is wise to have most of the body uncovered.

“Skin is what sticks and keeps the students from slipping while maneuvering on the pole,” she says.

With body insecurities running high, some people don’t feel comfortable flaunting their stomachs and legs in front of others. Kamp and her teachers understand these concerns and work to make the environment accepting and enjoyable.

“Most girls show up to their first class in yoga pants and big baggy T-shirts, but by their fourth or fifth they are coming in bikini tops and booty shorts,” Kamp says, also adding her studio is “like a family,” and judgment is not invited or welcome.

At one point as we roll our shirts up so that our stomachs can stick to the pole, Kumar smiles a devilish grin and says, “My deal is if I show you mine, you show me yours!”

When the hour-long class ends, I feel not just endorphins from the intense muscle workout but also a newfound respect for the art. Due to its ubiquity in strip clubs, pole dancing is often seen as provocative.

But one thing Kamp wants to get across is that it doesn’t have to be that way: “There is a lot of misjudgment around pole dancing, a stigma even, because many people don’t understand the amount of work that goes into it or why dancers wear so little clothing.”

With a nursing degree and a brand new baby, Kamp mentioned that Ms. Tryss is more her passion project than full-time job. “My staff, including myself, work here not for any other reason except that we are deeply passionate toward pole dancing,” she says. “This is my labor of love.”

After one class at Ms. Tryss, it’s easy to understand the attraction.

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Morgan Doo

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