Sitting in a car in the driveway of an East Salinas home, surrounded by police who had weapons trained on her, Brenda Rodriguez Mendoza called her mother on her cellphone and told her she wanted to die.
For weeks, the 20-year-old had been trying to climb out of an ever-deepening hole. On Feb. 8, she gave birth to her first child, a daughter she named Victoria Guadalupe, but the baby was placed in the care of the Monterey County Social Services Department because, her mother says, Rodriguez Mendoza was found to have drugs in her system and because she had no place to live. She created such a ruckus when the baby was taken from her that she was placed in the psychiatric ward at Natividad, where she remained for five days.
When she was released, her mother says, she seemed determined to get her act together.
“She was talking about fixing her life,” Mireya Mendoza says. “She told me she wanted to finish her high school diploma and become a CNA (certified nursing assistant) and give her baby a better life. And she was OK.
“I don’t know what happened. She was trying to do everything right.”
Two days before she died on March 1 in that car – a vehicle in which she slept, parked in the driveway of her boyfriend’s mother’s house on East Laurel Drive – Rodriguez Mendoza had run out of her bipolar medication.
“She had started hallucinating,” says her boyfriend, Pedro Rodriguez. “She punched me in the eye and scratched me, and then she left but she came back.”
On the morning of March 1, Pedro Rodriguez says he planned on taking recyclables to a center to cash them in, then return home to take Rodriguez Mendoza to an appointment at Social Services so she could begin working on regaining custody of the baby.
He wanted to do the errand first, and then come back for her, but the plan he laid out for the day set her off.
“We were outside and she started yelling at me, and my mom was just coming back from the store. She told me, ‘I told you I don’t want her here,’” he says. “She used to cause drama and yell, sometimes in the middle of the night, and the neighbors, you know, would hear.
“I climbed into my truck and she started banging on my window,” he says. As he pulled away from the house, he saw her standing against the car, crying. “I went to take the recycling and came back 10 minutes later and the police were already there,” he says.
His mother had called them. Rodriguez Mendoza had a weapon; while Pedro Rodriguez says it was a nonfunctional BB gun, Salinas Police Chief Adele Frese told the media at the scene that Rodriguez Mendoza “had at least one weapon. The information I have is she had a handgun, at least one if not more.”
Police arrived to the home on the 1000 block of East Laurel Drive around 10:45am. For several hours, officers and a crisis intervention team tried to talk her into dropping her weapon and surrendering to them.
It was during that time she called her mother.
“She called me and she was really upset. ‘I want to die, I want to kill myself.’ And I asked her why,” Mendoza says. “She said, ‘They don’t want to give me my baby back.’
“I told her, ‘Mija, you have to think about it. You have to fix your life and you’re gonna get your baby back,’” Mendoza says. “She said, ‘Mom, I don’t do drugs anymore, I don’t know why they don’t want to give me my baby back.’ Then she told me, ‘I love you, momma’ and hung up.”
At about 1:30pm, several officers opened fire. Rodriguez Mendoza died at the scene.
Police have not disclosed what triggered the shooting, and the case is now under investigation by the District Attorney’s Office, standard procedure following an officer-involved shooting. The officers are Bryan McKinley, Carlo Calupad and Robert Miller.
A social services official says the department would not be able to comment about the baby or Rodriguez Mendoza. At Monterey County Behavioral Health, prevention manager Dana Edgull, a member of the county Maternal Mental Health Task Force, is trying to get the word out that there are options and resources for pregnant women and new moms living with mental health issues, though she also could not comment on this specific incident.
“What we want to let women and families know is that there is help out there,” Edgull says. “Unfortunately it seems there are tragic events happening in our community, and folks have a reaction because of the tragedy and there’s even more stigma.”
Among the resources available: a call center (888-258-6029) staffed by bilingual social workers during the day and by other clinicians after-hours, during which callers can book a next-day, walk-in appointment at a clinic in Marina, King City, Soledad or Salinas. There’s also a specific maternal mental health “warmline,” (831-783-5922) run by peers via Parenting Connection of Monterey County, which offers free confidential support for new parents.
“We’re trying to make sure people aren’t afraid to come forward when they need help,” Edgull says.
Mireya Mendoza says she intends to seek custody of her granddaughter, and raise her along with her family in Mexico, where she lives.
“I spoke to Pedro, and he wanted to take her, but maybe she would be better off with me. She would have everything. She would have a good place to live,” Mendoza says. “I lost my daughter and she’s my little one.”
On Rodriguez Mendoza’s Facebook page, pictures of a chubby-cheeked newborn wearing a pink hat and a onesie decorated with pink ribbons appear, along with a one-line bio that reads: “I am a happy mom.”
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I cannot believe people would question the police on this. "Oh, it couldn't posdibly be a dangerous situation, her boyfriend said it was a BB gun.". How incredibly naive! They had no choice. She was unstable, proven history of violence as she had only just physically attacked her bf. Drug addicts, as a rule, do NOT get clean from one try. I am appalled at the uneducated drivel being spat out here. She succeeded at "suicide by cop". The end!
What do you mean you can’t believe people question the cops? Are you so naive to the fact that cops are not always the good guys ? We have a corrupt police department and sheriff department and I say this because I have been in the system for 13 years I just discharged probation.. there are very few cops I respect and I respect the job they do when doing it righteously the rest of them don’t give a fuk about any of us .. if this girl was in her car mentally unstable and not waving or pointing a gun at any officers then why fire shots and kill her? If knowing she was suicidal already and unstable it should of been approached in a different manner! Now they are investigating the fatality and the cops who shot her of course will come up with a justifiable excuse just to save there own asses so when it’s time to put it on the news It makes everything all better and there the people go again turning there head to the underlying problem This young girl had in which could have been prevented ...
Still waiting for some answers. If this woman was a threat to public safety, why did Monterey County Behavioral Health release her from treatment? Why wasn't CPS getting this mother mental health services?
I do agree! Behavioral services should have evaluated her more then they did.. if she was not a threat to police officers while in the car they had no reason to fire on her. I know when you lose your child to cps it’s like you’ve lost everything but why wasent this brought to anybody’s attention when cps got involved don’t thrt as well make the parents go through a series of mental health and classes and drug testing evaluating at least her mental state and some where down the line could have addressed it accordingly.. this was a cry for help and now there is a child without her mother.. but now her mother wants to step in and take the child out from foster care but wouldn’t help her daughter out when she had the chance to? Sad situation
People often come out of hospitalization in worse shape than they went in. Psychiatry's dirty little secret. There is a facility in Salinas which she should have been transferred to since she was homeless and needed intense attention. Maybe she wasn't eligible because of citizenship issues. On the other hand, she may have committed suicide by cop. Since the police didn't announce this, she probably didn't. The police have no interest in being nice to mentally ill people. Doesn't matter if a gun is pointing in their faces or not. Behavioral Health is going through aggressive reforms to cater mostly to Hispanics in Monterey, especially young Mothers, so this story really doesn't make sense to me. RIP. I send my condolences to the family.
This is very sad.. the pd could have gone about it a different way.. my condolences to the family.. I hope those cops are charged for murder..
Agreed! Public must demand transparency and accountability
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